When you put baby in the corner, CPS gets involved

Recently, Jenette McCurdy published a book called "I'm Glad My Mom Died" sharing her life story on the set of the popular Nickleloden comedy TV show, iCarly and the horrors she went through. I can't talk about the book as a whole since I don't have a copy to read but already the internet have been sharing huge parts of the book and the uproar it caused about Nickleloden allowing a known predator to keep working for them.

What also got my blood boiling beside the sexual predator Nickeloden allowed to work with kids is the backlash McCurdy is getting about the part in her book where she talked about how happy she was that her mom is dead and people screaming about how you should love your parents even if they're abusive control freaks with no concern for their kids and putting their needs first. Let me tell you something, every child with abusive parents deserve every rights to talk badly about their parents and why they'll never love them and happy to be away from them or seeing them dead.

As a matter of fact, I once worked with someone who never deserved to be a parent in the first place and hearing about this book brought back memories of a this said co-worker who I'm going to call Bonnie since I am going to run out of Aggretsuko nicknames sooner or later and I got the nickname for her from Family Guy due to my memories of her being pregnant and having a temper too.

Bonnie was a firecracker when I first met her and she moved from Oaklahoma and claiming to come from a military background Family. She'll be nice to you and get along with but yet at the same time, she the kind who doesn't take shit from anyone who is an asshole to her face. She did claim once that she stopped an armed robbery from happening at a different KFC in the up north of Michigan. (I have hard times believing people's stories on and off like this one)

But the thing I later on learned about Bonnie that made me question her on who she truly is as a person behind closed doors and what in the world possessed her wanting to be a parent doing a terrible job to the point that CSP gets involved. One of my shift managers, I'm going to call her Fenneko since she always got the inside on what's going on in people's lives and what's happening when I'm not around when I clock out or I have a day off.

Fennecko and I always chat about a lot of things together and pointing out our co-workers' flaws. Bonnie was the topic Fennecko brought up and told me something I didn't expect to hear from her mouth.

Fennecko: And she's coming in late while complaining about looking after her seven kids and got no one to baby sit her youngest one at home and-

Me, Resuko: Wait! She got seven kids?

Fennecko: Yeah, her and her boyfriend have seven kids together.

I struggled to explain my thoughts on who the fuck thinks it's a great idea to have seven kids who are not a member of the Duggar family and of course you got society telling you the reason why poor people have so many kids is because it helps them to collect more money from child welfare.

But Bonnie though, she pretty much been vocal about what kind of a parent she is without directly saying it. Bonnie would straight up and tell us why she is late for kid reasons and this is what she would tell me twice the reason why she is late for work soom and raising metimes.

Bonnie: I am so fucking pissed right now.

Me, Resuko: Why? What happened?

Bonnie: I couldn't find anyone to watch my youngest kid and I can't stay for long to work cause I left my youngest one home alone unsupervised and the only adults in the house are all too irresponsible to look after them.

Me, Resuko: *appalled that she did that*

She didn't do it just once, she done it more than twice and told me about it everytime she came into work and I badly wanted to call child protective service on her ass but I didn't because I didn't know where she live or how to track her address down. But luckily, a kind teacher reported her to CPS to help those kids.

Now this is the part where my story about Bonnie is coming to the end and how she left the work place on a sad note. "But Ms. Hags, you've been rough on her and you need to give her some slack since it's hard to be a mom and raising seven kids." You said and I forgot to mention that the reason the teacher called CPS on her it was because they found bruises on one of the kids' arms and got concern for the kid's life and health and oh one time I caught her vaping while pregnant in our parking lot.

One day she came into work, more angry than Hell and she blew up on me by telling me about the teacher who called CPS on her all because they found bruises on one of her kids' arms and they took four of her seven kids away and wanting to take her baby unless her and boyfriend take parenting class if they want to keep the infant. She never said if she's going to take the class or not but she is still sounded angry about the idea of going to one.

After her blow up on me, it got worse for her and I'll never get to know if she got her kids back or if she kept the baby. It was a Friday and we were understaffed just for the morning and afternoon shift cause you know some of our employees are minors.It was me, Ton, Bonnie, and Puko. My shift manager who I'm going to quickly call Puko since we get along well like Resuko and Puko did in the show.

Bonnie was oddly quiet and she wasn't talkative but she did mentioned about how upset she is and not in a good mood. I was working in drive through anyways which means I wasn't going to be around her anyways and my day went fine. Then we went into ground control mode big time. 

While finishing up a customer's order, Puko walked up to me and told me we are now down to three people cause Bonnie had a mental break down and told her directly that she needs to check herself into a mental clinic immediately cause she is at her breaking point and talking about killing herself. She clocked out and walked right out the door and that the last time we saw Bonnie ever again.

I do feel bad for Bonnie cause I know what it's like to have a mental break down and wanting to end it all but yet at the same time I feel like she put herself in that situation and loudly talk about putting her youngest child in danger by leaving them home alone with no one to look after them and having a house full of adults she claims she can't depend on them to help out.

I did wonder recently if she did get her kids back and kept her baby and if having a mental break down made it worst. By looking it up online, it sounded like she might of made things worst and I hope her kids are doing okay and Bonnie got the help she needs.

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